When
you think of memories, what comes to mind?
For me, I think about my childhood.
I have so many wonderful memories of growing up in the country, on a dirt
road, and fun neighbors.
In
the summer, we rode our bikes, swam, made forts in the woods, waved to the
trains that ran behind our house, picked flowers, fruit and vegetables, played
in the creek. One family of five, had three
boys, all older than us, that taught us how to play sports - baseball,
basketball, football. They also helped fix our bikes and kept our tires pumped
up.
In
the winter, we played in the snow making forts in the deep ditches, ice skated
all day and went sledding on the small hill by our neighbors’ barn.
I
have fond memories of those kids I grew up with. Some were older than me, some were younger
but we had a nice neighborhood family.
I
also think of the vacations my mom took us on. Touring New York State, Hershey
Park and lots of camping. Special times
playing cards when it rained, staying up late to look at the stars and catch
fireflies, getting up early to see wildlife and eat breakfast cooked over the
campfire.
And
more memories of times spent at my grandparents’ farm with my cousins, aunts
and uncles and well as my grandparents.
I
can only hope my children will think of their childhood when they are asked
about memories. I know the world they
are being raised in is so very different from the time I grew up in. Good or bad, I hope they look back on their
life and smile as the memories warm their hearts.
We
spend a lot of time with our children. They
are our investment. They need to know
they are loved all the time, that they have a safe place to be themselves and
express their beliefs, and a home that will always be there for them.
Parenting
is hard. I know I doubt myself about
handling situations, discussing difficult topics, listening without voicing my
opinion, questioning if we shelter them too much, and so many other
things.
We
spend time with them and we teach them.
That is where I see a difference with some other families. We don’t shower our kids with gifts and tech
toys. We have expectations and they
understand that. Both our children are
thoughtful, intelligent, witty, helpful and leaders in their own way. Yet they are so different from each other in
so many way. We are proud parents.
So
back to memories….the boys do special things together and we girls have started
venturing outside the kitchen. Last year we took course one of the Wilton cake
decorating class. We enjoyed it and our
decorating skills have improved. Olivia has decorated several cakes since the
class. We need to take the second course
and planned to last year but the timing of the class coincided with the end of the
school year and finals.
Recently,
we took a basic sewing class. Ah, it was
fun! We attended three 2-hour classes
and sewed three projects: a tote bag, an apron and a small zippered bag. It was a small class of 4 and Olivia enjoyed
it. She missed one class due to a school trip to Atlanta, GA but she managed to
sew all three items in the two classes she attended. We were not thrilled with the fabric choices we had for each project but we did the best we could matching up what we had to work with.
Here are our three projects:
And are we sewing at home? We
have each picked out a pattern and Olivia has fabric for our first home sewing project. Olivia plans to sew some clothing and I will try to make an item or two with
her. The projects will be a way for us
to spend more time together (yes) and continue learning about sewing and
developing our skills.
We
might not sew a lot in the next few years or we might go crazy sewing, hopefully
the sewing we do, will create more than articles of clothing. I’m hoping a
memory or two get tucked away that will bring a smile or laugh to her later in
life. I'm just looking forward to spending time with Olivia and anxious to see what she creates!